I am using Administrator account on both servers, turns out when I disable UAC, the load balancer works fine
When I enable UAC, the load balancer gives access denied error, similar to this problem:
http://serverfault.com/questions/82881/cannot-add-second-host-to-a-network-load-balance-cluster
How do I enable UAC, yet avoid this problem? I do not want to disable UAC, to solve this problem.